Its not that uncommon. A few questions / comments:
Are you completely protected against pregnancy? If not, the he may be worried about that.
Do you live together? If so, how do you "schedule" sex? If you aren't already doing so, maybe having sex when he particularly feels like it could help.
Will he let you watch him masturbate? If so you can see what works for him. Even if you need to use your hands for a while, once he gets used to finishing with you, things may improve.
Does he have any particular activities or fantasies that he enjoys and will share? You don't need to go along with things you don't like, but try to listen without making fun of him - there may be things you would be happy to do for him but that he is embarrassed to ask for. (of course he should do the same for you).
For some men things can to two ways. Either finish quickly, or it takes a really long time. Maybe he is holding off early on in order to please you, but then gets desensitized. If so, you can do things to finish him quickly at the start without worrying about you. Then he can please you when he has recovered.
In some ways this problem is like premature ejaculation - the more he worries about it, the worse it gets. One reasonably approach is to just not worry, take the stress away. Enjoy yourselves in bed, and let him finishing himself be part of your normal activities, not something you do because you "failed".
Does he please you in bed?
Source: http://www.womens-health.com/boards/sex/56126-my-boyfriend-takes-too-long-come.html
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